Just do it!


#1

Just need some inspiration.

A push, if you will.

some peer-pressure! That’s the ticket!

Just ask her!

Keep it going until I say that I did it.

I think you understand.


#2

Just cowboy up and do it, already! :stuck_out_tongue:


#3

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Mark Twain


#4

all the cool kids are doing it… every one will like you if you do it


#5

Are you going to ask someone out?


#6

that’s the idea.

I don’t really know when I will see her next, but its time.


#7

That remains to be seen, I guess.


#8

http://www.ianspence.com/ubb/graemlins/doh.gif


#9

And you are thinking of doing this how? In person? On the phone? Via email? Via messenger?


#10

in person.


#11

You’re brave.

I’d be inclined to email. That way you get an honest answer. In person, she might be intimidated into saying “yes.”


#12

Bah! She’ll say yes no matter how he asks. If he ever asks…


#13

Go for it, Cruzer. Is it too late tonight?


#14

So, do we know this girl?


#15

Do it! No matter what, you still have us!
Do it!
Do it!
Do it!


#16

Just use the “What’s The Worst That Could Happen?” method.

OK, accept the fact that the chances that she’ll be driving a steamroller are very, very slim.

That gets that scenario out of the way.

She could tie you to an ant hill. Nope. Not likely.

Hit you with a baseball bat? Nope.

Hit you? Probably not.

Now we’re getting into the Probably Not Fatal Though Maybe Uncomfortable range.

Laugh? Again, less likely than most possible scenarios, especially if you’re sincere. If you were met with a laugh, better to know this type of thing up front before you’ve invested anything more.

Nervous, tenatative excuse? You’re a smart guy, and will know what this means. Everybody saves face. “We could always be friends.” You could. It takes a big man, but it can be done.

Enthusiastic acceptance? Oh no, not that!! Wait, that’s the desired outcome, huh?

Marking the other possible outcomes off the list leaves you with excellent odds, and almost no real danger.

Go for it. Just do it! What’s the worst that could happen?


#17

cruzer…at two different HS reunions, girls asked me why I never asked them out…they would have said yes!
You never know.
You don’t have to start with an engagement ring…just start slow, ask if she wants to go out for a walk, a cup of coffee, walk around a bookstore…
Or you could try…“hey babe, you wanna come back to my place to see my woots?”


#18

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#19

No


#20

Your gonna be fine, just do it, Tall gave you some good advice.
Your a Texas guy. Texas guys have a lot of charm, just apply it and go for it.